How To Find True Love – Lesson 3.6 – Relationships Are Wonderful

Welcome to Lesson #20 of the How To Find True Love course!

You’ve been delving into some tough information. By the nature of this course, we’ve looked at challenges and difficulties. When you focus on them, the tendency is to see only the challenges.

There is nothing more wonderful than to experience the love of another and be able to return that love. When you come home from a tough day and have someone listen to you, touch you, and encourage you, the difficulties of the day can drain away.

The focus of this lesson is to examine whether you desire and are ready for a committed long-term relationship.

How Do You Know You’re Ready?

As much as you want to know the future, you can’t. There is no way to be 100% sure. But some processes can help you to make a decision.

You can have a checklist:

1. Meets my top 5 qualities.
2. Has none of my “must not have” non-negotiables.
3. Has all (or maybe most) of my “must have” non-negotiables.
4. Has some of my “extras”, as in “not necessary but would be wonderful”.
5. I’m in love and that love is returned, or, if love is not primary, has what I’m looking for.
6. Prospective partner is ready

What Scares You?

If everything is checked off on the list above, then there is something within you holding you back. Do you know what it is? Even if you do, you might find it helpful to do some of the exercises below.

These will take some time, but it’s worth it to take the time rather than miss a lifetime of happiness.

List Of 100

The List Of 100 is an excellent brainstorming technique. It’s similar to a brain dump of what you know. It also moves you deeper into your subconscious mind where the “secret” knowledge is.

First, some initial guidelines:

1. Make your list in one sitting. Because the process assists you in tapping into your subconscious mind, you must make your list in one sitting. Your mind is going through a process as you write, so don’t disturb that process.
   • The first 30 or so are things you already know.
   • The next 40 or so challenge you to move deeper by letting go of what you already know.
   • The last 20 or so have you opening your subconscious mind and discovering the secrets, which is where the gold is.
2. Avoid distractions. Turn off everything that can distract you.



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